Monday, January 31, 2011

Menu Plan Monday...or there's a first time for everything

I've often said that menu planning would make my life easier.  I know it's a great tool, simplifies my week, prevents those last minute grocery store runs and a myriad of other benefits.  However, I never do it.  (Sort of like exercise....)

But as today, right now, this very minute, yes, today, my friends, I will menu plan.  (Or at least for this week....)

So what will the Jones family be partaking of these next few days?

Monday:  Roast w/carrots and herb roasted sweet potatoes (and for those of you, like me, who don't like sweet potatoes...well, even I like these).

Tuesday:  Homemade pizza and Cauliflower pizza for my special diet guy

Wednesday:  Roasted chicken and a veggie

Thursday:  Meatloaf w/herb roasted sweet potatoes (yes, again...we eat a lot of sweet potatoes)

Friday:  Homemade Taco Soup

We eat the same breakfast everyday:  Yard eggs (no, not my yard) either scrambled in plenty of organic ghee with ground turkey or fried eggs with homemade turkey sausage.  The two non-diet boys get sprouted wheat toast; the other gets sweet potato pancakes.

Lunch is usually organic, grass fed beef hamburger patties w/baby carrots or soup or leftovers....

There you have it.  I'm sure my family will be thrilled!

I'm linking this post to Menu Plan Monday at orgjunkie.com.

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Do those come in a bigger size?

I got some disappointing news this afternoon.  It's not the end of the world, lest you be concerned and think that "the world is ending in May 2011" billboards are correct.  (And if they are, then "oops" - my bad.)  In fact, most people might not even think it a big deal.  But to me it was a shock.  The news that a program where my kids have attended once a week, my oldest for eight years now, is ending, and to say it completely took me by surprise is an understatement.  The proverbial kick in the gut.

I sat on the couch and bawled and ranted to my husband for an hour.  (He's a very patient man.)

This was my community.  It wasn't just about a one day a week break from my kids, because not all of my kids attend.  But it was about community.  And connecting.  Friendships forged over science projects and a shared love of Legos.  About a school experience for my home schooled rug rats.  Turkey parades.  Christmas parties.  Ice cream socials.  Field day.  School pictures.  Adorable preschoolers who want to hug you goodbye, and in the blink of an eye are in sixth grade and wearing men's tennis shoes.  Chatting with moms while boys (and the brave girl) run amok outside.  Or standing by the car talking to my sister while the boys yell, "Stop chatting, mom!" from inside.

I guess this is where I have to put on my big girl panties and deal with it.

And sometimes that's just lousy.

Friday, January 28, 2011

How I got my kids to eat

I get asked that.  Not all the time, mind you, but I've been asked enough that I can honestly say, "People ask me how I get my kids to eat."  I'm no food expert, but I've come a loooong way, baby.  In fact, my somewhat reluctant journey to partial "granola-dom" should probably be a blogpost of its own.  But, I digress.  This post is about how to get your kids to eat.  I guess before I give you my suggestions - oh, the anticipation is just building, isn't it? - I should tell you a little about our eating history.

I have three boys.  But I started with just one.  And after he was weaned and started on solid food, I did the obligatory veggies here and there - canned green beans mostly, if I'm being honest.  (This is where I also have to mention that I was a moderately picky kid; I didn't like lots of veggies myself.  However - and this is where the culture shift comes into play - I ate what my mom fixed.  Including the veggies.  I don't ever remember a separate meal being prepared for any of the four kids residing in our household.)  Okay.  So when Boy1 was about 18 months old, we moved.  And during that process things got hectic, as moves are wont to do.  Oh, and did I mention I was pregnant with Boy2?  So I was less diligent about veggies.  And it showed when Boy1 later refused to eat even green beans.

I should also mention that I "bought into" the whole notion of "kid food"...whatever the heck that is.  For some reason, as a new mom, when he progressed to solids, I thought it would be too hard for him to chew up table food.  I know that probably sounds stupid, but someone else out there might think the same thing, so there you go.  (And I didn't have a genius experienced mom telling me to just puree that stuff or to mash it or finely chop it up....)  So, as he, and of course, Boy2, moved into toddlerhood and then preschool age, I was preparing chicken nuggets, mac and cheese, pb&j, hot dogs, spaghetti (but no meat!), bean tacos, cheese quesadillas, and the like.  In fact, nuggets and hot dogs were the only meat Boy1 ate.  Boy2 wouldn't eat any meat.  And neither of them ate any vegetables.  Not even the starchy kid favorites of corn and potatoes - okay, they ate french fries, but that doesn't really count now, does it?

I was doing the best I could, or what, at the time, I thought was the best.  We gradually moved into buying organic milk, and organic natural peanut butter.  Fruit spread instead of jelly.  Name brands (for whatever that's worth).  Whole wheat bread.  Whole wheat homemade mac and cheese instead of the box mix.  Nitrate free hot dogs.  And the boys were fruit eaters.  I even gave them cod liver oil.  So, I convinced myself that, in spite of their limited diets, I was feeding my kids pretty healthy stuff.  This is where I quote Danny Silk and tell you that, "My mistakes are your wisdom."

And did I mention that I home school?  So now, fast forward a few more years and I'm trying to teach Boy2.  And Boy2 won't learn.  So I try a different curriculum.  And Boy2 still won't learn.  And then I realize it's not that he won't, but that he can't.  I'm going to take a big short cut here and just tell you that in my quest to change that "can't", we began to explore tweaking our diet.  Not all of the changes we made may be necessary for you and your family, but it leads me to "how I get my kids to eat", which really boils down to just a couple of things:

1.  If your child is just beginning on solids, don't feed them "kid food".  Let them eat what you're eating.  I'm not suggesting you give them jalapenos or horseradish, but the amazing thing about kids' palates is that, unless they are trained to eat "kid food", they don't know they aren't supposed to like vegetables, meat, fish...even cod liver oil.

2.  No choices.  That sounds a little harsh, but we came to this "new" style of eating out of desperation (and oh, the irony, that this "new" style has actually been the eating style of people for thousands of years), so there were no other options for us.  When we changed to a new way of eating, there was no backup plan.  No eat that, then you can have something else.  No PB&J in the pantry.  I think most people have a backup.  And you can't.  If you really want your kids to eat well, you have to be willing to let them be hungry.  You can not force them to eat, but you have to be willing to let them be hungry if they choose not to eat what you serve.  And that is when parenting is not so fun.  But think about it - I've heard about kids drowing in the tub when mom was on Facebook, kids dying from being left in hot cars during the summer, but I can't think of any headlines where a kid starved because his parents only offered him healthy food.

I could go into a lot more detail, but this post has already gotten very long!  And let me be very honest.  We (with the exception of Boy2) do still have the occasional junk.  The other two get snacky stuff at church or out and about from time to time.  But, in general, my kids now eat a pretty healthy diet.  Do they like it?  Not particularly.  If they had a bowl of broccoli and a bowl of Cheetos in front of them, you'd better believe they'd be all over the latter.  (Unless I got to it first...I like me some Cheetos, too.)  But as a rule, eating family meals at home almost 100% of the time,  my former non-veggie, non-meat eaters are eating meat and veggies.

And that, as Martha would say, is a good thing.

(This post is being linked to It's Almost Naptime's Mom to Mom link up.  And I hope I do it right, cause I've never linked up before.)

(Edited to add that I've also linked this to Kelly's Korner's SUYL Friday.)

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Happy New Year!

Well, given that it's January 1st, that's a really original blog post title, isn't it?

My 2010 commitment to host a blog and continue memorizing Scripture - hence, the reason for this here little ole blog - has ended.  I'm going to continue memorizing, but this time as a Siesta Scripture Team member on Beth Moore's blog.  Feel free to join in.  I'm hoping my sweet sister-in-law is going to do it, and if she does, I know we'll have a great time at the celebration next January!  If anyone else is in, let me know in the comments.

I may just keep blogging for the fun of it.  I've had a few friends tell me I should keep it up, and, with a little peep peer pressure, I can be a wee bit of a pushover.  Heck, it'll give me something to do when I want to avoid cooking, laundry, or homeschooling my kids.

(Oh, I'm kidding.)

(Sort of.)

We had a pretty typical New Year's Eve, involving playing some games with the kids, eating, putting them to bed, watching a little Dick Clark (who, bless his sweet heart, is really getting up there), and managing to stay awake until 11:30.  Glamorous, huh?  I thought the TV pickings were pretty dismal.  Of course, we're Amish, you know, and rely on our rabbit ears and converter box.  I should've popped in When Harry Met Sally, the go-to New Year's Eve movie.

I do have to say that in my quest to impart virtue, character, and life skills to my children, I have somehow passed on one of the most beloved traits to my eldest.  Yes, you guessed it.  The love of all things trivia.  I now have a kid I can play Trivial Pursuit with.  It makes my heart sing.  We'll work on Scrabble skills next and then, frankly, my job here will be done.

We've spent most of the morning taking down Christmas decorations, which sure goes a lot faster than putting those suckers up.  It'll be nice to get the house back in order, although we do have a family get-together next week to get ready for.  It's always fun to have something else to look forward to...as if the pinnacle of the year's holidays that we just experienced weren't enough.  I got it into my head that I would make Chicken Marsala for 20 people.  I'm not quite sure what I was thinking; I must have been hankering for Carrabba's.

And, while we're at it, I might as well post my first verse for 2011:
Hebrews 10:35-36, NIV - So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.

Good one, huh?  I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that I'm pretty sure this year will require some perseverance.  Ya think?